House rules

The Velvet code

A short list of non-negotiables. Break them and you're out — no warnings, no debate.

Consent is everything

Enthusiastic, ongoing, and revocable. A 'maybe' is a no. Respect every boundary the first time.

Be a real person

One profile, your photos, your age (18+ only). No catfishing, no recycled stock images, no fake couples.

Match before you chat

DMs unlock only when both members tap 'interested.' If they didn't open the door, don't knock.

Privacy is sacred

Never screenshot, share, or out another member. What happens in The Velvet Club stays in The Velvet Club.

Zero tolerance

Harassment, hate speech, minors, non-consensual content, or solicitation = immediate removal.

Bring your full self

Curious, kinky, vanilla, poly — all welcome. Kink-shaming and exclusion aren't.

See something off?

Every profile has a Report and Block button. Reports go to moderators within minutes; blocks are instant and silent.

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